Wayyy back in July, I corresponded with an author at Fatherly.com about what “women crave more of in the bedroom.” (yeah, I thought the query was phrased in a fairly limited and odd way, too) I don’t know whatever happened to the commentary — perhaps it’s because I maybe pointed out
Guest Appearance on Sunny Megatron’s ‘American Sex’ Podcast
I was recently a guest on Sunny Megatron’s “American Sex” podcast — pretty darn cool! In addition to having one of the most epic names on earth (which is an accolade in of itself IMO), Megatron and co-host Ken Melvoin-Berg deep-dive into “American Sex” guests’ experiences with sexuality, gender, and identity. Some
Bree Mills Makes ‘Fucked Up Faux Incest Porn’ (Commentary for Jezebel)
I recently corresponded with Tracy Clark-Flory, writing for Jezebel, who was working on a profile of director Bree Mills. Mills currently is the head of production at Gamma Films and was integral in the development, creation, and production of sites Girlsway and PureTaboo. She’s a really good speaker who I have invited
Sunny Leone: From Vivid to Bollywood
A lonnnng while back (truth: in March of this year, what the heck!), Mark Hay, writing for Playboy, approached me with questions about an interesting person to discuss: Sunny Leone. Leone is a Canadian-born Indian-American actor and model. She is currently active in the Indian film industry — Bollywood — and formerly worked
Less Rage/Fury: ‘Cheating’ as a Social Construction
Early last month, I corresponded with a writer at SheKnows.com about cheating. Specifically, the writer “need[ed] professional tips on what people should do right after you find out your partner cheats. Please list and explain some of the actions you should take.”The story does not seem to have ever been published, but
Can You Revoke Consent? (The Answer is ‘Yes’)
Can you revoke consent? Whatsmore, can you revoke consent in the middle of something you previously consented to? Back in June, I spoke to writer Bobby Box about the idea of revoking consent — namely, his question was, can you? The answer is, of course, yes. Regarding where this passage
Fauxcest in French (Commentary for Les Inrockuptibles)
Wayyy back in June of this year, I corresponded with a writer named Amélie Quentel. Quentel was working on a story about fauxcest for Les Inrockuptibles, a “French magazine that deals with cultural and social issues. Apparently, the final piece was published on July 25th and is located behind a pay wall —
Online Marketing Mastery: The Case of Greg Lansky (Commentary for AdAge)
Earlier this month, Kanye West gave Greg Lansky some killer press — a totally honest and impromptu shout out on “Jimmy Kimmel Live!” Kimmel asked West if his attitudes toward women had changed since becoming the father of two daughters. Maybe or maybe not (I find comparative discussions regarding a person’s
Consent and Clear Communication Are Key (Commentary for Bustle)
I recently responded to a query regarding sex questions. Specifically: What are some questions you should be asking every new sexual partner? In my view, before we can start to work through specific questions, we need two things. First, good effective communication, which is 100 percent challenging and requires effort on the
Dudes, Families, and Adult Content Consumption: Is it Bad? (Commentary for Fatherly)
Josh Krisch, the science editor at Fatherly, recently contacted me about some questions he had regarding how porn, especially when consumed by married men and fathers, impacts the family. “I’m also interested in hearing how increased access to porn has impacted society at large, and what some worst-case scenarios might be for